Hillary Clinton and the Bitchy PTA Mom

I was thinking tonight about how insufferably bitchy a lot of PTA Moms can be… with their annoyingly pushy Type A personalities, and their in-your-face way of saying what’s on their minds, and their incessant “expectations of excellence.” Ugh, right? They’re always working hard enough that it makes you feel a little bit guilty for you NOT working that hard. And they always seem to be in a little bit of a hurry, and a little bit pissed off… Probably mostly because other people aren’t working as hard as them. I know this sort of mom very well… I’m married to one of them.

But I’ve known her type for a long time. I was a kid to whom most things came fairly easy. I never had to try very hard to get by. And somewhere along the way, “not trying very hard” became part of who I am. All I had to do was just sit and listen in class, and–without taking a note, without ever taking a book home–I could manage to pull off a straight B+ average. But every once in a while, there would be something we HAD to study for… And you know who I DIDN’T ask to borrow their notes? Guys. Mostly because the majority of them didn’t take notes either, and the ones who did took notes that looked like a toddler ate a bunch of pencil lead and threw up on a paper. But there were MANY girls who took notes. Girls did their homework. THEY were the ones you wanted in your group when you did a group project… God only knows what kind of a shit show of a project would have gotten turned in if there was a group filled with a bunch of little jack asses like me.


When it came time for needing notes, there were some girls who we knew not to ask. They always seemed to get a little “bitchy” about handing over their hard work to a slacker like me. But I could always find at least one. I’d be charming. Or funny. I’d spread it around, so it didn’t seem like I was taking advantage… You know what? The more I think about it, maybe things DIDN’T come that easily to me. Maybe I wasn’t as naturally smart as I thought I was…  Maybe I’ve just been riding the wave of my privilege so long that it started to feel like natural ability… Maybe I just had some really hard-working females around me who helped me out.

Or a mom who worked as hard as hell to make sure that I had everything I needed… While my Dad didn’t pay his child support, and slowly killed himself with drugs and alcohol. Fuck.

But yeah… My wife is one of those Bitchy PTA Moms. Right now, she is sitting in her office (our converted dining room, whose floor is covered with every manner of God-knows-what that she uses to make sure our kids’ lives are filled with every kind of excellence they wouldn’t receive if I was their only parent), and do you know what she is doing? She is putting hours and hours of work into working on the program for the play that our oldest daughter is going to be in. She is doing this while she has other work piling up from her photography business. Earlier today, she drove some girls on the middle school soccer team to their game after school. This weekend, she spent time making amazingly creative Halloween costumes for our kids–something she does every freaking year. Later this week, she will go to our youngest’s school, and she will spend her time packing food for hungry kids to take home for the backpack program that SHE STARTED… Because kids who are hungry don’t learn very well. Sometimes she has help, and sometimes she doesn’t. But guess what… That shit ALWAYS gets done.


This is the kind of shit she does. Excellence. And she does it all by shopping at thrift stores…

Sometimes she can be a little abrasive. Sometimes there are some fireworks between her and the other Type A PTA Moms who specialize in getting shit done. All the other bitches. Because you know what those bitches do? They get shit done. They put together fundraisers that allow your kids to have nice things that the school system doesn’t pay for because we don’t want our taxes to go up $5 a year. So when someone inevitably complains about something not being right in this year’s program for the play, she might seem a little “bitchy” when she explains how the deadline for having it done was a month before the actual play, and things are bound to change between tonight and the performance. And she might seem a little “bitchy” when she gets in your face after you complain about how all the kids in our county get free lunches, but YOU probably aren’t working on making sure poor kids get the nourishment they need. And I might feel like complaining about buying organic-freaking-apples for the sack lunches we send our kids to school with instead of those garbage meals they feed them at school… But you know what? I think I’ll let it slide.


Serious question… Who run this mother?

And there are a lot of people out there who say things like “Hillary Clinton just rubs me the wrong way.” Yeah. She rubs you the wrong way like that girl in high school who you KNEW not to ask for her notes. She rubs you the wrong way like the girl in the group project who called you out for not doing your fair share of the work. She rubs you the wrong way like the girl in college who didn’t laugh at your joke, because she didn’t think it was very funny. She rubs you the wrong way like that Nasty Woman at the office who is trying a little too hard to impress the boss with her hard work. She rubs you the wrong way like a “bitchy” PTA Mom who seems a little too uptight about everything being perfect… Or who doesn’t have time for your nonsense, because there is shit that has to get done. And it all gets done while enduring our male fragility. So instead of criticizing her “likability,” I’d prefer that you’d just say “Thank you” for that new computer in your kid’s classroom. You ass.

I leave you with perfection from Louis C.K. Please watch it. And you should probably also read this masterpiece. We need a Mom in the White House… Not a child.

I’m. With. Her.

Post Script: I promise I’m sick of this election too… It’s is genuinely hurting me. It is hurting my hope. It is hurting my faith in humanity. I see despicable actions, and I immediately assume the person doing them is a Trump supporter… Sometimes unfairly, sometimes not. The other day, a guy drew an ejaculating penis on a credit card slip and gave it to a young woman I work with at the restaurant (along with his number)… I hate that I was immediately certain that the sort of person who would do something brazenly offensive like this was the sort of person who would vote for Trump. I hate that if I see white supremacists or confederate flag flyers or people who hate Muslims or immigrants or queers, I automatically know who they are voting for. I see pictures of women wearing “Adorable Deplorable” T shirts, and I feel like giving up. I’m feeling depressed. I’ve maybe got one more blog post in me before the election. This man doesn’t need to just lose… He needs to lose BADLY. Please, PLEASE VOTE. Like Louis said, “If you vote for Hillary you’re a grown up, if you vote for Trump you’re a sucker, and if you don’t vote for anybody you’re an asshole.” I understand that there are reasons to not vote for Hillary… But there are NO good reasons to vote for Trump. 

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7 Responses to Hillary Clinton and the Bitchy PTA Mom

  1. Tom says:

    Very well put, nice connection you made there. I think we should make that her slogan from now on. “She’s prepared because she’s been doing the fucking homework since 1947”.

  2. joesantus says:

    To get to my point, I’m trying hard to ignore my initial reaction and ask, “So, you want Hillary because you’re a chronically lazy bastard who has always wanted a mommy to do your homework when you should have taken responsiblity and done it yourself???”

    But…how about the majority of US citizens do as I did (when I early voted) and write-in, “NO candidate represents me”? Imagine the impotence of a Trump or Hillary elected under the dark cloud of the majority of the US citizenry having officially expressed non-support by voting yet writing-in that or similar.

    The two-party Dem/Repub oligarchy is so entrenched that not even does a candidate require vast finances, but that even a well-monied character like a Trump still needs to throw in with one or the other of the two in order to have even a chance to win a federal election.

    You truly want to change the system? Then quit undermining democracy by voting for “the lesser of the two evils”. Vote, yes, but refuse to vote for either the Dems or Repubs at state and federal levels, ever.

    • Bud says:

      @Joesantus: Instead of wasting a vote on a guaranteed no-win 3rd party candidate, why not, in 2020 -or sooner -get involved before the primaries and caucuses, get out there to promote your candidate of choice to hopefully bring them enough notoriety and votes to make it to the first levels of the democratic process.

      Case in point, I caucused the first time in my life this year because Bernie was the candidate we all needed. I registered as a D for the first time ever (always Independent before that) just to do so. It was an eye-opening experience that if 80-90% of the voting population took part in, we’d have some great, inspiring candidates.

      Instead of complaining about the lesser of two evils, get involved and make your voice known when it has the most power during the primaries. Otherwise, you have nobody to blame but yourself for getting involved too late in the process and getting stuck with other peoples’ choices. It really is that simple.

      • Richard says:

        Or, how about trading your vote?


        It’s perfectly legal, and there are apps that make it easy.

        Or you can just be f*ing honest with yourself and realize that either Clinton or Trump is going to be president, so you’d better make damn sure that the best one of those two gets elected.

        Oh, and by the way, have you EVER voted for a third party for any office in a non-presidential election year?

      • joesantus says:

        That a candidate such as Bernie Sanders needs to join in with either the Dem or Repub party is — that simply — further evidence of the oligarchy we as citizens have allowed and enabled those two parties to create, by our continuing to vote for candidates of either of them.

        Primaries aren’t a benefit now to the US democratic process. They’ve been twisted from their original intent to serve now only to funnel candidates for the two “ruling” parties.

        Until the party system is severely weakened or outright eliminated — which will only happen if you, if I, and if the majority of US citizens cease supporting either of those two parties in any way — your “great inspiring candidate” ideal is virtually impossible.

  3. D. Vanderlaan says:

    I laughed at the implausible characterization of Hillary. Sadly it wasn’t intended as a parody. While Hillary can certainly be described as fingernails on a chalkboard that is really the problem is it?
    With the mountains of evidence piling up via WikiLeaks it has become clear that Hillary and Bill have been taking bribes and selling influence and access for years. You can call it pay for play or any other more palatable phrase but in its simplest terms Hillary and Bill have accumulated nearly a half Billion dollars selling out you and me.
    It would be a more accurate metaphor to compare Hillary to the student who gets by not by being studious but by cheating on every test. The author is apparently suffering from a really bad case of cognitive dissonance – hanging on desperately to opinions that are in complete conflict with the mountain of facts coming from leaked communications from the Clinton, the DNC and the Foundation.
    It’s likely that the Clinton’s behavior will go down in history as a bigger scandal than Nixon or Tea Pot Dome….. Its a sad time in American history. Corruption is rampant.

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